“It’s not that you don’t have the time; it’s about what you choose to make time for.” — Bob Branson
About five years ago, I received a phone call that would shape the direction of my professional life. It was from Irene Dahl, previous owner and operator of Dahl Funeral Home in Bozeman and the first female president of the Montana Funeral Director Association (2001), asking if I would consider serving as the southwest district governor for the MFDA.
My first question was the same one you might ask: How much time will this take?
Irene’s answer was simple: very little. It was a minimal commitment, she said — and her time as a district governor and serving on the executive board had been one of the most enjoyable seasons of her career, especially because of the friendships she made.
At that point in my life, I understood the theoretical value of investing time in associations and the professional growth and connections I could develop. What I did not fully grasp was the intrinsic value the commitment would provide — the depth and layers of personal growth that being part of this association would bring to me, my business and even my family.
When you become involved — when you attend, participate and especially when you choose to run the chairs — you invest not only in the association, but in yourself and in the future of your career.
Investing in Yourself
Serving within MFDA sharpens your perspective. It broadens your understanding of legislation, ethics and the direction of funeral service in Montana. It connects you to mentors and peers who will challenge you, support you and stand beside you throughout your career — and maybe beyond.
Investing in Your Profession
Our profession evolves. It faces regulatory change, cultural shifts and economic realities. The strength of funeral service in Montana depends on leaders who are willing to step forward. Running the chairs is not about holding a title; it is about stewardship. It is about ensuring that the standards and values we uphold today continue for future generations.
Investing in the Future of Your Career
Early involvement accelerates growth. The relationships you build, the confidence you gain and the understanding you develop cannot be replicated by standing on the sidelines. The professional knowledge, friendships and shared experiences shape not only your résumé but also your character and leadership.
The growth that happens around the boardroom table carries back into your funeral home and your community.
To the young professionals in our industry, I challenge you to get involved by running the chairs on the executive board. The profession you serve deserves your voice, and your career deserves your investment. Every one of us balances family, business responsibilities, community commitments and personal priorities. There will never be a perfect time but now.
Looking back, what I once questioned as a “time commitment” now feels like one of the most rewarding investments of my life. The sacrifices were small in hindsight. The return — in knowledge, perspective, friendships and purpose — has been immeasurable. I am wholly better for participating in this association.
With gratitude and encouragement,
Bri Mulvaney
MFDA President
